Mama’s Holiday Wish List Meme
Todays Mama (http://bit.ly/tmwishlist) and GameStop (http://bit.ly/gamestop10) are giving away a sleighful of gifts this holiday season and to enter I’m sharing this meme with you.
1. What is your holiday wish for your family? To find our path. We have been struggling for 13 years now to figure out how to become the family we want to be. We want a healthy family dynamic, a home filled with love and acceptance and the skillset to deal with and overcome adversity without losing our minds and our bearings in life. And we want to find where we belong. We want to find the place where we all feel like we're finally home.
2. What is your Christmas morning tradition? Sadly, we haven't really established anything really great. We all just kind of get up and watch the kids open gifts then I get breakfast. Maybe I'll put on some Christmas music. We didn't grow up with traditions, so we are still struggling to find one that means something to us. Maybe that will be my goal this year is to really hone in on a Christmas morning tradition that will have some meaning for our family.
3. If you could ask Santa for one, completely decadent wish for yourself, what would it be? To have the money to attend a really great blog conference! I love social media and I have so many ideas that I need help to flesh out and a blog conference would be the perfect place for me to network with the experts and get their input and advice. Plus I would finally get to meet some of my great blog friends! A vacation and a learning experience, all rolled into one awesome package!
4. How do you make the holidays special without spending any money? We try to focus on the real reasons we celebrate the holidays. On Thanksgiving, we talk a lot about the blessings we've received throughout the year and we take time to thank our Heavenly Father for his love and support. Throughout the Christmas season we talk a lot about our belief in Christ and really focus on loving and serving others as much as we can to create a spirit of warmth and love. We try to give gifts that have meaning, rather than gifts that cost a lot of money, like photo albums, handmade cards, homemade treats, etc.
5. What games did you play with your family growing up? Ummm...we didn't play games. We didn't really play as a family at all. We didn't really have that kind of family dynamic. My sister and I lived in many different homes with different family members, so there wasn't a lot of game playing, mostly just trying to adjust and survive. To be fair, when we did live with my mom, she worked 7 days a week, so there wasn't really a lot of time for "playing" or doing stuff with the kids. But enough of the whining! I'm trying to leave those issues behind! I do remember a few times, back when Atari Pong came out, sitting with my step-dad and playing Pong with him for $25 a game. I KNOW!! He played for some serious cash!! Now that I think about it, he had to purposely lose the first game because neither of us kids had $25 to start with! Wonder why that never occurred to me then? Ahhh...good times.
6. What holiday tradition have you carried on from your own childhood? Like I said, we never really had holiday traditions growing up. I guess no matter where we lived or who we lived with it seems like we always made sugar cookies with icing and sprinkles. And I can always remember being able to watch the Christmas specials and It's a Wonderful Life. I do make sure my kids make cookies and we watch some of the classic specials and Christmas movies every year, so I guess we do have a tradition! Yay!!!! We're making progress!
7. Where would you go for a Christmas-away-from-home trip? I would love to go to Switzerland and see the Alps and eat lots of hot, melted cheese dishes while I watch the snow fall and listen to milking maids yodel about hot chocolate. Seriously though, Switzerland sounds like a wonderfully, picturesque place to spend at least one Christmas, with it's pretty little villages nestled among huge snow covered mountains.
8. Check out GameStop (http://bit.ly/gamestop10) and tell us, what are the three top items on your GameStop Wish List this year?
1) A Nintendo Red DSi Bundle for Little Man, his Gameboy is antiquated and hard to find games for.
2) An Xbox 360 w/Kinect for The Man and Big Brother, because apparently PS2 is no longer relevant in the gaming world.
3) A Wii Fit Plus w/ Balance Board or EA Sports Fitness Bundle for me so I can get my fat butt moving in 2011 to something fun and finally get in shape!
Well, that's my meme. It actually made me a little depressed. My goal right now is to be extremely positive, so I really need to work hard this year to create a different experience for myself and my family! No more mourning the past! Now you know a little bit more about me, I would love to hear about some of your family traditions and Christmas wishes!! Maybe I can borrow from some of you to start creating better memories for my kids. Here's to a happy, memorable Holiday Season!!